Somebody referred me a student for tutoring, so as a courtesy I returned a call to say Thank you.
But...this conversation lasted for more than 3 hours. At some point, I do see the problem of why we feel stress out when we keep complaining. We do complain at some point, but we still have to deal with it. If we choose to sacrifice one thing and choose the other, so whatever the consequence we still have to bear. There is no way we can escape unless we choose to let go.
This person complains so much and seeing every people work with her has problems, but actually she needs to change.
We talk about learning. She thinks learning can be very easy. Well! I guess maybe I am dumb enough, I think learning can be fun but not an easy task. I do not enjoy "spoon feed learning" how much you can learn with the amount of a spoon - small.
It's very interesting especially when I am reading at their behavior, gestures, and comments, I understand more why people keep saying "stress out" because they are either "OUT-dated" never want to learn, or they never think "OUT side of the box" there are choices and fresh air everywhere.
So change our attitude and "take action."