We meet a lot of people everyday, some with great personality and we want to know them more or even get closer; some with baggages and negative energy and of course we want to keep a distant.
You might come across some people that you are very interested to be friends or even more, but most of us hesitate to move forward. Some people are very easy to fall in love, and they are stuck with that romantic feelings. Some people with a clear mind, they observe or do some testing, make sure this is something "real."
It is easy to find somebody that we are interested...but to find somebody we truly love that make us willing to sacrifice...will be another "story."
If you believe "Law of Attraction" then attract what you love...they will tag along.