Saturday, July 21, 2007

Unconditional Love

I was listening to the radio tonight. The DJ was talking about her dying Dad. It reminds me about my mom. It has been six years, but everything just seems like yesterday. I remember every single details, every little things, and of course this is how I learn what is unconditional love.

Only parents will give us unconditional love. Our spouse, our lover, our siblings, and our friends might be very difficult. Nowadays, it is hard to find somebody that will share true love. True love is unconditional love regardless whatever changes physically or mentally, this person will still love you as who you are.

Some people they choose to love opposite sex, some may choose loving the same sex, and some just care less. Me? I want to be love, but I am scared to love. Not because I do not have confidence to love, I am afraid of separation. It is so hard to find a soul-mate or finding somebody that I can share everything with. Yes, if I can find one, then I want to keep it forever, but there is nobody can live forever, and everybody will die. I understand it really well, therefore, I am still pending....I guess I am not afraid to love, I'm afraid of death.

Ask yourself how many people in your life will really make you feel safe and want to stay? How do you know this person is truly love you? A person that love you will only leave you answer not question, because this person truly love you.

So do you have one?